I can feel the old prying/snooping instinct coming on so pulling away is probably a better plan.
Oh man, I know that feeling well Aquiana! When I get the urge to critique hubby's behavior, or check-up on him, it's a signal to me that I'M OUT OF CONTROL. Trying to manage both of our lives makes life unmanageable. So tough to break those old habits, but so completely necessary if I want peace and serenity.
Keep the focus on you and that precious little baby boy!