Thanks ICU for backing up what I thought was right. My husband does not go to meetings everyday now, but about 3 times a week, HOWEVER, if a beginner calls him to drive him to a meeting, he'll go every single night if it means getting that person to a meeting if they want to go. He'll do this until the person has a sponsor he is comfortable with or until that person has a car.
BTW Aquiana, my husband did not make any amends until around 16 months sober ...... it was at that time he was on Step 9 and it was time to do it.