Does your A get mad because you "push" his "buttons"???
Both of the A's I've been involved with have told me the same thing: I really know how to push their buttons. Now what the heck does that mean???? A couple of weeks ago, my A and I went out to dinner in San Diego. We were having a great time. About four blocks from the motel, he jumps out of the car! I drove back to the motel and I saw him walking up the street. Go figure. I asked him the next day why the hell he jumped out of the car in the middle of the street. "Because you sure know how to push my buttons." I asked, "So what specifically did I do that made you think I was pushing your buttons?" "I don't remember." He never REMEMBERS - at least most of the time - why he suddenly does asinine stuff like that, but it has to do with this button-pushing idea.
I ended the conversation by saying, "NOBODY can have their buttons pushed unless they allow it." Jeesh, what an ass!