Originally Posted by dane5679
I'm pretty sure this is wrong and have started getting pissy with my ABF because i said he should be working his steps more and recovery rather than subsituting his addiction- ya'll are probably going to yell at me i'm guessing so i guess let me have it...
I'm not gonna let you have it,. dane. I think YOU learned a lesson here, even if he did not.
We have a great Naranon forum here. If you are both addicts, it might be a good idea for you to learn how you can detatch with love and not enable.
This is a process, sweetie. We don't snap our fingers and get everything right the first time.
And congrats on YOUR sober time. Good for you!!