!!!!Way to go Sunshine!!!!
Isn't that confidence empowering? I am so glad you did that for YOU!
I do think its hard them to know how to accept us as we begin to change too. I know mine expects me to blow up. He has every right to feel that way, but they have to give us a chance. And, hell its amazing what working on ourselves and some HONESTY from them will do. I want to trust him, and all I need is some honesty and time to heal.
OK, I am way too wiped out tonight to be intelligent. For myself today I went to my son's school for Fun Day. Eight hours with 300 grade schoolers. I am starting to think I am a masochist! I feel like I have been run over by several trucks. He had a great time, and now I'm just too tired to even "think." Probably not such a bad thing since our anniversary is tomorrow.
Keep the inner strength! Remember...you deserve the best!!!