Originally Posted by minnie
I am more often amazed that people stay together in recovery than if they split up,
It occurred to me yesterday how much better it would be for us (and our children) if we were both happy apart instead of miserable together. I am (mostly) past my anger and I do wish happiness for him. If that is with or without me, it's more important that we each live our lives to the fullest. I am determined to do that. I hope he will come to that realization as well.
Looking forward to your "Big Picture" thread..........
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