hi Done!
Thanks for your sweet words
Yes it's hard to go through it but if my abf can get clean & stay clean it's all worth it. He is such a great guy you know, such a big heart. He deserves an amazing future. No more suffering.
and for that i'll stand by him.
You know I think there's a lot of Nar-anon who have tried for so long to help and help and help and help yet with no result, that it is understandable at one point they let go and take care of themselves instead.
Everyone has a limit. For me, i still have the drive to help my bf, i can still do it. But what about if this time doesn't work? I don't know if i'll have enough strength to go through it all again.
I guess the people you mention above are the people who have given up, maybe, but not without trying to help
BTW I'm proud of you for you being clean, you're an amazing girl
xxx
Carine