Jewel,
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( HUGE HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))
I wish I lived near you so I could just come over and be there with you. There isn't much more for me to add to what the others have said. One thing I do agree with is that you did do the right thing by calling the police. Jewel, you had no other choice. You did what was right so don't dare second guess yourself on that decision.
We all know how much we mothers want to fix all this for our children. But you know from my posts that I'm walking the same road you are.........trying to learn to let them learn for themselves while we try to learn to detach. Oh Jewel, I know, honey, I know.
Just know that you and your son are in my prayers and ya'll will stay there. I'm praying for peace for you, that God will calm your heart and let you know He is in control.
Love you, Jewel,
Hangin' In