Originally Posted by dolphingirl76
She will bring up money, and then say its her fault for spending it on booze, but shes hungry etc...and there is something about the way she says it that makes me feel obligated to help.
If you decide you want to help, instead of giving her money when she is hungry, try inviting her over to share a meal with you and send her home with some leftovers!
Some would argue that that's enabling, and maybe they would be right. But at least you would just be feeding her empty stomach, and not giving her money to buy more booze!