Hi constant
what a nice peaceful time !
the first thought in my mind is, why not? telling him how you feel
should be part of a marriage. you cant walk on eggshells wondering what might cause him to drink, if he realy has a problem it will manifest soon enough no matter what anyone does or doesnt do or say.
I questioned something similar to my sponser on day recently
and it realy came down to whether or not i would be enabling by my actions. when i knew i wasn't i could respond in my normal manner,it felt right and the outcome was good.
hope this helps
hugs
liddy