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Old 05-16-2003, 07:16 PM
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constant
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To ask or not to ask?

Well, Not sure how far into the not drinking he is, but the cut off date he has set is June 3rd. He has been sober for at least 10 maybe 14 days.....I really didn't take him serious when he said he was quiting for 30 days. (remember he was quitting to see if his stomach would feel better.....not have constant diarrhea)

Things have been GREAT......much like the life I would like to have all the time without the lurking monster that sticks out its ugly head at the most unopportune times!!!

OK the question is.......Do I tell him how wonderful I have felt and how the stress level has dramatically dropped? Do I ask if he has noticed? Do I "discuss" anything or just enjoy what I have now? I know these sound like dumb questions and whether or not I ask isn't going to make him start or stop, but I would think I should express how pleasant MY life has been during this dry time. Please give me some feed back on what y'all think!!!!

Thanks....Hope that everyone is going to have a great weekend!
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