Can we say light bulb moment?????
I just read what I wrote again about my dad's mom and my own mom and it just hit me - my dad was drawn to my mom b/c she's very critical - just like his own mom!!!! That's what was normal to him, that's the behavior he was used to!!!! OMG - I never drew that parallel before!!! Wow....
Geez, do these cycles ever end?????
(Live, I'm with ya...if I had a nickel for every time the "if you don't have anything nice to say....." thought went through my head....
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