Thread: support or no support? that is the question
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Old 02-08-2006, 05:12 PM
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Done_With_It
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After I read this post and replied I started thinking about something that I read in a post.

Big Sis made a post in response to someone, I'm not sure 'exactly' what she said, but it was something like,

"we have to keep ourselves well so we can be strong for them when they are ready"

I think that statement is the best answer to this thing usually. I know if I was bringing my family/friends down, making them sick, etc. I would want them to detach from me. I mostly wouldn't want them to be that affected by my stupid actions, I wouldn't want them to be upset all the time, I would want them to keep on living and be happy. 2ndly, Yes, I would want them to be strong enough to help me when I was ready. They wouldn't be able to do that if they had let me bring them down...........

So again, I think it depends on the situation and the person.

Just some more light on the subject....... from Done.
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