Sounds very familiar. I’ve seen my AH do that many times. He’s been sober for 2 months today , longest stint of sobriety in 7 pls years. What I can’t figure out is why he’s not proud of it. I barely mentioned it one day , bc our daughter had asked me his long and he just mumbled “ yeah”. I’d love to congratulate him in our family group chat ( just us and our kids ) today on the 2 months but I have a feeling that it won’t go over well, so I don’t think I will. Isn’t that strange though? It’s almost as if he wants to completely forget that the last decade happened at all.