Originally Posted by JessicaNAJ
Sure he drank a 12 pack a day at 17, but that was not an issue for me at that time. My issues with G started before his drinking became an issue.
Reading this, I have to say,what jumped into my mind was.....are you sure? If he was drinking a 12-pack a day at 17yr, then the drinking HAS been an issue all along, it would seem. Maybe it had just not yet been identified as THE issue?
(Let's put it this way....he has been"chemically-altered" in his thinking all this time, I would guess; unless he had a long period of sobriety between 17yr and now.)
JMHO
I am just now starting to re-look at my own situation in this very light.......I was blind, and I imagine I still am, to a degree. Peeling away that onion.