oh and when he said he messed up friday night - I said you made a choice. You chose not to take antabuse days ago so it would be out of your system and you chose to drink. I imagine alcohol addiction is hard and I can't comprehend how hard. I have an eating addiction which is not the same I know.. but I'm medicated and it helps. So maybe if he stayed on his meds that have been prescribed he would be doing better and not still drinking. I did say - tell whoever you are with that you are going down fast because he has already lost so much and regained it - it can be lost again and this time forever - like his freedom if he gets another DUI.