Originally Posted by
trailmix 
No problem following it all!
I can understand that. If this wasn't such a contentious parting, you could even consider making part of the house his and part yours and some common areas.
Don't you find this comment from him really odd? Of all things to bring up, this happened a few years ago and he's still resentful about it (and why the heck is that).
I tried to put him in the basement - he refused. I tried to say let's have a custody schedule while we are both living here - he refused.
I kind of find that comment odd - but then again, I'm holding onto things that happened in 2017 (the woman he was "friends" with). I think it is dumb to have a competition about who has been hurt more. I also hope that someday he will be in recovery and will realize I wasn't as bad as he made me out to be - that is was the alcohol brain talking. I think he has made me out to be terrible to justify his behaviors - and by that I mean the suspected cheating.
Thank you for the articles!