My ex. is still doing the same things to me too. Right now he is withholding Child Support and Alimony and trying to get the kids taken away from me.
He is engaged right now and I think his honeymoon phase with her is about to end but that is her worry not mine.
My mother always makes me feel as though everything I do is wrong plus she believes everything my ex. A Husband says to her.
Something I am having to work on right now. At least from my Addict Dad who is divorced from my mom is abondment issues.
Feels like my ex. husband took over both of those roles.
I'm glad that you posted this for I didn't realize until just the other day that even though I wasn't with my ex. that he was still abusing me but in different ways.