I love that there is room for all kinds of personalities and advice here and that the mods do an awesome job of directing it all. From tough love to warm and fuzzies you just have to wade through it and take what you can and leave what you want.
Sobriety is hard work and sometimes I need to hear that reality. Other times it is good to get a pat on the back and a, "you got this."
Don't take it personal. I'd be more worried if nobody even cared to respond.