Hi Trailmix
I should have been clearer. I paid for my own hotel and travel only which amounted to around 250 pounds which is for 1 overnight stay. In answer to your question, my nephew lives around a 2 hour car journey from me so short lunches etc arent possible.
When we've met in the past it's been at their house. His wife always gets absolutely trashed but she goes off to bed and thats it. I cant believe she would get in a state like she did in a different city leaving me alone like that.
Why he abandoned me too I just don't understand. Its like they thought I was nothing or maybe I'm too sensitive. I don't see a way forward and it hurts.