You are amongst like minds. Who else would chime in???? You'll hear two voices all the time... (1: just cut back and you'll be fine...2:you have to simply stop) The battle is within...not from the outside. I've come to realize the battle is with ourselves no one else. No matter what our past is, we are in the ring with ourselves. Sounds crazy??? But it's real. Just decide to take the gloves off and lay the sword down. It's funny the advice you give...is the one you should take. Welcome...and thanks for posting!!!!