Sorry B. Bad place for you. I am like your husband though. The secret awful drinker. Will I stay with me if I was married to me. No. If you can afford to leave with your kids I would suggest that. If you can not you will have to accept the consequences of living with an alcoholic. This is just my opinion. I am sure you will do the best thing for you and the children. Best wishes.
As a ps: I do not think any of us want to be alcoholics.