Good job on the sober vacation, Hodd., they are indeed the best! Sounds like you have an understanding partner, and the two of you are able to discuss things, which is so crucial. I have found a lot of expats (not all) are drinkers, especially in the tropics, where I usually go. They can be really boorish and I'd rather hang out with the locals. Sounds like you did that, to great success.. I understand the irritation that can occur sometimes, especially in less developed countries where things don't work as well, but that's just part of the experience, right? Sober is always better under those circumstance - so fantastic job on that my friend.