I totally agree with winelover and carol, you must try something to see if it works. I do think forums are a great place to find answers and support. In my opinion, its best to find people in your area with the same problem and be able to relate to face to face. It could be a.a. or some other form of recovery group, but working with others can be a whole lot easier than doing it alone. I said the same thing about a.a. when I started, but I owe the group my life now. I also made a commitment to help others in my situation, so if you need anything let me know
Bp