This was a great read- honesty was one of the most important things I gained on this trip. I'm always careful to not call people out too harshly- did that once and regret it still- when they are drinking and telling everyone- but Dee's OP makes a good point- isn't calling people out part of our role when we have the collective experience to know what it leads to? At any rate, I got a lot out of reading through these posts and some of the old posters are absent and I miss them. I guess that's beside the point, though. I hope they are out there living a happy, sober life.