Thread: Where to start???
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Old 01-26-2006, 07:39 PM
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Grimnar
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Originally Posted by DevilsUrine
I'm just not that concerned about myself.
Maybe you need to stop right there and focus on what you said.

Do you love yourself?

Would you hurt something or somebody you love?

Most addicts it would seem to me don't love themselves when they let the addiction take over (the reasons don't really matter at this time).

If that is true, then you need to stop the addiction first. Then learn to love yourself. Learn self-respect. Learn discipline. Be selfish with your needs but in a healthy way. Find a program that works for you.

Sometimes, perhaps most of the time, surviving in life is about not doing what we want to do but rather doing what we need to do.
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