Not to scare you but when my wife was pregnant she wanted to have one glass of wine on our anniversary. We checked with our ob gyn and she advised even one drink can cause fetal abnormalities.
I don't understand what you mean by judgement or criticism when it involves health of another young human being. To be very truthful it's kind of shocking to me.
Please for yourself and for the babys sake do not drink anymore, not even a bit. Sorry if this was not what you expected.
If you ever decide to drink again, read this to drive the beast away.
https://www.europeanscientist.com/en...o-development/