Like I said in the other thread Kes, It takes time I think - I went from fighting to not drink, to being happy I didn't drink.
I prefer my sober life and there are no conditions that would drag me back to drinking.
No fight because I have what I want.
where are you on the scale do you think?
I agree with the idea that fighting all the time can left you weak and vulnerable, but others have used the fight analogy for years, and have not wavered or 'gotten tired'.
Fair play to those hard folks but I don't know how to do that.
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