Attitude
Hello phoenix, it appears that you have the right attitude and it goes without saying that recovery is not an event, it is a process. I am still in the process of becoming. I remain teachable and able to remind others that they too are able to be teachable if they remain open and willing.
I found this to be true. Life is 10% and there is nothing we can do about that 10%, it is going to happen to each of us and we cannot change it. But we can change the other 90% and that is "Our Attitude." we can choose to have this attitude about what happens in life or that attittude. Right in the middle of a bad situation, we can chose to change our attitude and weather the storm in an optimistic, cheerful way. Or we can choose to be grumpy disagreeable and make everyone miserable. But it is a choice that we have and we can control and change our attitude at will. Do you agree?