Zencat, I'm not in NA but find these Just For Todays very helpful, especially the one about the world not being within our control and having to love life on life's terms. I am dealing with a problem person in my life and have to realize I have to live life on life's terms. This person with likely always be a controlling person and I just have to react to her with compassion and love, no matter how frustrated I get with her.
. Love is the answer to many of my problems so I must get better at practicing it,
even with difficult people.