im sorry to hear about your friend,and i do not know how much help this will be but i say 100% that would be in a far worse possition than i am with the help of my family. for you to take on helping her all by your is a big responsobility and i think you should be aware of how big before you commit your ,if you are the sort of friend i think you then it wont matter.i can also tell you that no matter what she /he says do not give her any money once they have commited themselves to detox{which is not going to be easy}then if they are anything like i was will tell you whatever you need to hear to get what they want.i have been sorting my self out for a while now and i choses to get haelp from my doctor {im on methodone} i would suggest your friend looks in to this as you can come off ,over a period off time, with the pain of straight detox.hpoe it helps