S o m e people can drink *a* glass of wine with a good meal and some of those people won't even finish that glass of wine.
Me?
I'd be ordering a second BOTTLE of wine and side-eying that unfinished glass in front of Mary.
Not everything is for everybody.
I did the experiment. I won't ever be Mary. No amount of delusional thinking will change that. I was naturally created to love drinking, whether that is biology or environmental - doesn't matter. I'm way better off with alcohol off my menu. Similarly, ice cream. I would eat all the ice cream until I couldn't eat another bite. That's not okay!
P.S. I don't like oysters or okra. They're for someone else.