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Old 09-03-2022, 05:40 PM
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Sunflowerlife
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post
Hello, darling Sunny. SO much love. xx ❤️❤️

What is it about familiar patterns that keep us locked up and unwilling to change?

I think the answer may be in the word "familiar".
Even when we are in pain, we often choose to stay stuck because it is somehow safer.
The unfamiliar is an unknown, and even if it is something we long for, it is still scary.

I am sorry you are having a difficult time love; here for you all the way. xx
Yes, I agree. Feeling safe in the familiar is part of it.
I released a lot today. I cried tons and apparently I am still grieving the loss of my marriage. It’s been 2 years and 2 months.
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