Originally Posted by Gb66

Trailmix, thank you for reminding me of those comments. It is so true that there has been a history of anger and I can’t believe I pushed that aside to focus on his ‘niceness’ which as you point out is really manipulation. I have changed and just go about my business and he is seeing me happier than I have been in a while. I am going to move forward as planned and remember to look back at my old posts when I begin to have doubts.

Nd819, when you said that you personally have not found strength to take action yet I realized that if I am honest with myself, I’m not either. I pretend I am but if I was, I would be long gone. Now that he is being nice I am thinking maybe I don’t have to go through with this but in my heart I know I do.