Also, I know that if I am not the one to pick him up, his mom will do it. And she will suggest they go get alcohol right when she picks him up. She does not care about him getting sober. I believe she'd prefer he be a drunk with her and that way she feels less alone and safer so they can both be sick drunks together.Their dynamic has cost me a lot of sanity and made me physically ill/sick with sadness. It is a very unhealthy relationship and he is a mama's boy. He has even said to me that I will never come close to his mom (which is a weird thing to say because it shouldn't be a competition to begin with).