Hello GinaD1026,
None of us get married thinking that we will get divorced.
No one but you can decide what you want to do. You can't force him to get help or stop drinking if he doesn't want to. You CAN help yourself and by doing that then decide what you want! Some of us stay and some of us leave, but what ever you decide has to be what you truely want for YOU!!
Keep coming back here. The boards have helped me alot. I am stronger today and I don't let my husbands drinking ruin my life. They can't ruin anything unless we let them. DON"T let them!!
Take care of you,
matters