The Pain Stops: when your longing for them gets slowly replaced by a desire to get away, when making love to them no longer makes you feel cherished, when you find yourself tired of waiting for the moments where the good will truly outweigh the bad, and when at the end of the day you can't count on their arms for comfort.
Uhmmmm.... I get where your coming from and many times this may be true... but - you know NOT always.
My husband, my partner, is ALSO a human being, individual and free. As am I.