I'm glad you're getting some sober support Babs, the decision whether to move or not is a toughie. We really need to downsize our garden as being away 3 months at a time is not great, but otherwise the house is ideal. We are torn because we know we need to move and have now had an offer -albeit unofficial until solicitors get involved from Tuesday- but it is very stressful. We both have similar ideas about where our next home should be, but do also differ in our personal ideals. Hopefully we find enough common ground - and obviously a house that ticks enough of those boxes - before we're living out of a tent in our sons back garden!