So I was waiting to update but I went though all the work of finding him a detox, calling, even showing up when I didn’t get call back and he did the interview process and they gave him a day and time to go in. He knew this was my final straw and he needed to go in for us to work. When it was time for him to go he backed out so I told him it’s done. He made a big scene of drama very very upset saying I’m leaving him in his weakest moments but I can’t force someone to get help that doesn’t want it and I went through all the work to get him help. I ended things and now I have to just figure out how I’m gonna deal with me and taking care of my kids. I hope he comes around and wants help but I don’t think he realizes the seriousness of it all. It’s been a day and he’s already asking to see our toddler but he needs to get better