Welcome 4awagon, We are in the same boat...this also has been the only resource that I have but O how it works! At 1st I also was looking for a counselor but after looking at online reviews of counselors, many 1 star, I started calling help lines (5 of them) which didn't have a clue of what I was going through or just wanted my Insurance $. Then I found SR. Now I have a multitude of counselors with NO MOTIVE but to help people. Venuscat ask, who are they (counselors) there to help? answer, THEMSELVES$$$$$. Now I'm sure that there are good ones out there...GOOD luck finding them. Blessings......