Originally Posted by
SparkleKitty 
Friend, she is not interested in quitting drinking right now. I don't know if there are more ways for her to make this clear.
You absolutely deserve happiness. Can you accept that you may not be able to find it with her?
Slowly getting to that place… I have focused more on myself… Putting energy into my career, exercise and reaching out to past friends I lost touch.
by the way, you dog looks like an incredible boy or girl.