Oh dear oh dear oh dear,
all of them are true for me except #9.
I am the product of a long line of alcoholics so i guess i should not be so suprised that i am such a mess.
I am going to start working on the suggestions on how to establish boundries tonight. All the A's are out of my life now (no contact with my mother, grandfather has passed and my husband is living with someone else) so at least I can have a fresh start!
Finally feeling some hope!