Sorry for what brings you here. A relationship with someone newly sober and possibly dealing with pain pills and depression is bound to be difficult.
Originally Posted by
Strawbz11 
The thing is 95% of the time he's lovely. He's funny. He's kind.
Two lines for how great things are, the four paragraphs preceding it on how bad and confusing this relationship is. I think 95% lovely is an exaggeration. Go back and read the first four paragraphs as if someone you knew, perhaps a close friend or family member, wrote and asked you what you think. What would you say?