Originally Posted by PeacefulWater12

Great recovery that you have worked very hard to achieve.

I am finding as I come out the other end of the trauma bond, it gives a whole different perspective of all the push/pull/discard/hoover rubbish.

It is all so lame and pathetic yet when I was in that chemical bond, it felt so powerful and utterly controlled me. It all seemed so vital and important, whereas reality is it was silly mind games.

Now, without that trauma bond it seems strange to me that I would have wasted all my time on something so tedious.

The healing process is incredible.