Originally Posted by
sage1969 
Good for you for blocking him, you need to look out for you.
His actions are speaking louder than his words. He's looking for a drinking buddy, not a partner.
Thank you ! I know he needs help and I do fear with him around all the enablers he’s going to get sicker. He’s already had two bouts of pancreatitis and his teeth look bad. He has IBS, gout and high blood pressure. At 37 that’s a lot . But his recovery is his own. I can’t do it for him. I did that for my ex husband, who’s a recovering addict . I took him to NA, his mom and I put him in rehab. None of that got him clean. Him getting his 3 rd DUI is what needed to happen for him to get clean and work a program.
Yes, I’m sad about the situation but he hasn’t hit his bottom