@Hechosedrugs Yes! That is exactly how I feel. He has lied in counseling multiple times. I feel like I live in Crazytown, and it really seems the therapist has no beneficial experience with addicts and their manipulation/BS. I am seriously considering cancelling our next appointment, because what's the point? I feel terrible when we leave and in shock. there can be no real progress when one person is lying. It is astonishing. I call him out on the lies each time and he doesn't miss a beat. In the last couple of months, I was confronting him about all the money disappearing and the mood swings, and then quitting his job AGAIN, and he responded with telling me our relationship is over. Wow! Starting a fire to distract from the real issue. Seems typical, but blessing in disguise?