Old 11-23-2021, 09:30 PM
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Dee74
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Hi Bodhi

At the end of my drinking most of my social group were alcoholics like me and we naturally drifted apart once I showed I was serious about recovery.

I did end up reconnecting with a lot of old friends then tho. I personally didn't hide my drinking problem but, with the hindsight of 15 years recovery now, I think you merely need to say 'I don't drink anymore'.

Thats it.

You may feel as if you need to join the dots (I'm trying to have a baby, I don't enjoy drinking anymore, I want to look after my health)... but you really don't need to.

I thought everyone else took drinking as seriously as I did.
I found that, by and large, they do not.

In my experience the expectation of a explanation came from me far more than it did from anyone else.

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