GramCracker, I’ve just been looking through my old notes to see if I could help in anyway. Mine seem to be full of drinking dreams. I think it’s quite common whilst we’re starving the AV from what it wants.
I was told two things that stayed with me in the first few months. (Besides not having a drink)!
Keep to your own side of the street and ……don’t make any big life changing decisions for 12 months (unless you’re in danger).