It seems like you want other people's perception of you to change *now* — and I get it. While 70 days is a big step, healing relationships and learning to forgive yourself and overcome shame take time and work. The first step is committing to the sobriety — it’s YOUR sobriety, no one else’s. It’s not about convincing others, it’s about convincing yourself. Your family and others in your life will see the changes in due time… but only if you really commit and cut the addiction out like the cancer it is.