You do know what to do to fix this. You have been doing it. Keep doing it. Keep on recovering and keep yourself focused. Recovery is not linear for some. It was not for me. I had many starts and stops and It was BRUTAL. This forum and the members here have so many tools to be shared. Support. Compassion. Empathy. Recommit and continue moving forward despite the anger your family has. Do not be defeated. You can be sober and you can be happy!
There is a lot to be grateful for in the world and in our lives. There is a lot that we are blessed with. Your house, your job, your family and all that you have are blessings. Gratitude is a skill set. It takes a bit of time for people to learn how to be grateful and to learn how to change what they think and what they believe. If you can start to implement a bit of gratitude in all that have and all that you do it will make a giant difference.